i write this in BKK airport after a rather massive day which involved rising at 4.45am, a magnesium, salt, gatorade hit, a bandaiding of feet, arrival at the mcg (the inaugural melbourne cricket ground), the 7am melbourne marathon with another 5000 odd people (with a super route tracking around all the inner city historical sites, along the bay from inner city out to elwood, and a return through st kilda), culminating in a joyous lap of the mcg @ just before 11. from there a speed walk/hobble for another km or two to a tram to get me home to st kilda, a lightning fast shower, a picking up of the backpack, another 2km walk/hobble to a 12.30 tram to zip me back into the city, to a 1.30 bus to the airport, to a 3.30pm flight to sydney anddddd bc of the weather delays on this one, required me to then hobble at high speeds through sydney international airport to jump on the waiting plane to now be here in bkk. nothing like a flight booking to help push you through those 30km + moments where you just feel like stopping, stretching or plain slowing up out of something close to just being sick and tired of running!


and if you’re wondering why I am in BKK not Australia still? had to make a last minute change (ie a couple of days back) of dates due to a fabulous interesting challenging work opportunity in the Solomon Islands in nov/dec … hence having to get back to laos and finish up some work here first. so apologies if I didn’t call you and explain etc etc … but it was all completely last minute, and my brain is still racing to catch up with the when’s, the where’s and the what’s at the moment. so the next couple of days in bkk for some lockdown uni writing time and then laos on friday.
just thinking a little further … it was a large day indeed, but a happy day, and a chosen day. there’s a lot of people having way beyond large days at the moment, and days that are far from anything happy and certainly not chosen. sobering.
well the sun is rising soon … time to head out and find somewhere to sleep. more soon. and in case i don’t say it often enough … THANKS for all the different types of special places all of you hold in my life. even if for many of you, i don’t get to say it face to face so often.
FOOTNOTE THOUGHTS
- the mcg is really a lot bigger than you think ie upon entering the mcg at the end, i thought i would put in a sprint to the finish line, but then after about 200m the end point still looked a long way away, so I had to pull my enthusiasm back under check until the real last 200m!
- murphy’s law … the very day when you do have a plane of hundreds waiting just for you is of course the day when the airport security decides to do a full drug/bomb check down, body, bags, mouth the lot. “But I don’t have time for this today, I’m running to catch a flight” Yes dear, everyone’s on the way to catch a flight. “No but you see mine is meant to be taking off in 1 minute and i’m the final passenger they’re waiting on”. Yes dear we understand. I even showed them my boarding card, drawing attention to the departure time, and was there a moment of consideration? No nooooooo. And the worst thing about these moments is when you eventually stumble red faced, sweaty and puffing onto the plane and every 2nd person sends grumpy looks your way, bc you (aka “I” in this case) are the person that has clearly been holding the flight up. I can see everyone just assumes I have been trawling through the duty free shops, buying up on perfumes and makeup & lost track of the time. And I want to explain the weather delays, the security people and the blisters under and between my toes. But there’s no point. So I sit down all the while feeling large buckets of gratitude for the lovely check in man in melbourne who put me on an exit row without charge, bc he was impressed with the early morning run. such a lovely unexpected treat.
so i’ve been back in aus for about 5 days now and these are the standout thoughts
- it’s nice to go for a run and see a whole lot of other people doing the same thing
- beachside beers are just so tasty
- it’s so easy to get around when everyone speaks your first language!
- people think they need so many things that are irrelevant
- train travel is fab
- cockatoos are gorgeous
- when did 2 x cans of red bull for $6.95 ever become a bargain???
- it is soooo nice being able to drink out of a tap!
- pickled onions are a treat
- bread became expensive in the last few years
- you don’t have to spend much to get a really tasty red … fab!
- there are a lot of people sitting around in coffee shops analysing relationships
- everyone is doing yoga
- and my little spot in the world here in st kilda is lovely … bc of the coffee nearby, bc of the bay nearby, bc of the lake nearby, bc of the city nearby, bc of the music nearby, bc of the wonderful running places nearby, bc of the coffee shops w big comfy old couches nearb, bc of the cockatoos and seagulls nearby, bc of the abundance of wine stores nearby but mostly bc of the sweet lovely people i’m living with who have dinner cooked constantly, put my stuff in to wash often, have wine corked regularly and are just generally good chatty lovely people
a few little pics …
well i am now in my usual transition koh phangan home enroute between laos and the next stop … which is melbourne for 7 weeks! have a fab opportunity working with an aus lady i met in laos actually … on various cross cultural training things, monitoring and evalution of project design type stuff, workshop preparation for various seminars w ausaid staff, abc etc etc … will be great
it will be a little bizarre being back in aus again for a permanent stint, but also totally looking forward to and intending to have daily doses of good homegrown live rock n roll, beach runs, VBs, daryl lea licorice and brushing up on my slang …
the last month in laos was spent working with akha ladies … amazing … check out www.towardsgenderparity.com (a few little layout font issues at the moment until i have better internet, but 95% ok) … or use the link on the left if you’re at all interesting in seeing, feeling, knowing more
well if you an aus person in my life … these are the movements
- arriving in melbourne 13th sept
- staying in st kilda with some lovely people (thanks rach & jess!) til 31 oct
- in g coast from 31 oct pm til 10 nov
- then laos again for a bit
so if you’re in melbourne, i’ll be seeing you soon … if elsewhere, book a wnd to melbourne!!! if gc or bne, c u in november, but definitely talk on the phone without any strange beeps fuzz or delays soon soon soon!
some pics of the last month below …
so my lack of activity has been due to a completely delightful 5 week sojourn in aus which was a revolving calendar of bbqs crazy pals beach sweet pals champagne hilarious pals live tunes overly generous pals surf delightful pals aunty katie moments wonderful family sumptuous seafood girly ridiculously silly pals byron beachfront beers remarkably strong pals and and and … clearly no time for internet moments
overwhelming revelations … looks are more important than culinary taste & enjoyment these days (aka the overly flooded market of low carb beers!), i still have big day out youthful energy in me (all about the fence position), i have some remarkably generous, and strong strong strong selfless wonderful friends in my life, geographic distance doesn’t mean emotional distance, being with my family is a peaceful and happy place to be, xxxx tastes better than it used to, i like no love being a nomad
soooooo … my next movements … here in laos til mid feb, then 6 weeks somewhere beautiful to get cracking on “the book” and put a good dent in my masters study (yes! i have bitten the bullet once again!) … and then another mission back here in laos … and then another beautiful place in the world for more of the above and thennnnn … well i’ll write something more by then
i have been known in the past to have my camera handy at every moment, but this time home, i saved the memories for my mind’s eye and will share with you just these two pics which fairly much some up the key activities and happiness of my aus hours
couldn’t possibly add photos of everyone, but this pic indeed sums up the fabulously fun times i shared w all … so picture it like you’re there!
two of my best girls (the belle and ngaire) have just had new babies … many of you know these girls so i thought i would share some photos of them for you … all of my friends and family so far have managed to have particularly cute babies, although this is of no surprise to me
cute blondie girls miss honi and her really wanting to walk little jola jade
two of the greatest husbands I know who have stepped up to the fathering tasks with amazing style and gusto … hubbies of the girls below … oh yeah and I can’t forget to mention the amazing home scone baking that the boys are cheersing over … one of my “must do’s” in aus
the lovely ngaire and leilani having a burleigh moment at PICNIC … a fabulous coffee shop on James St at Burleigh run by some friends … so get there if you haven’t already!
and the pottz’s lovely husband toadie aka rick … onto his 76th new hairstyle since I have known him
my only full sun no wind no crazy surf beach time happened here at coolum on the sunny coast with the lovely pottz … a perfect perfect day
for those of you non australians out there that think I am having a lovely decadent sunshiny time on the beach, there has been a big cyclone/low sitting on this part of Australia which arrived pretty much the day I arrived and I think is forecast to leave the day I depart the shores … so I have seen 2 hrs of sun the whole time I have been here!!!! I have managed a couple of dips but those delightful rips pulling at the toes don’t make you want to stay around for long … so you shouldn’t feel too jealous … the red flag says it all really
my gorgeous little niece bianca … just giving her a few posing lessons which she caught onto remarkably well … i’m a little jealous of her style in fact
and my first photographic record of 08 with my delightfully effervescent fabulous pal the belle … who has more energy than most unpregnant women
my final minutes of 07 … this is more for my own record but to ensure I don’t lose it, it has to be blogged
























